My Son Hates Me
My son hates me, what can I do about it? 3
He was a very restless young man, he gave us a very difficult life at the age of 15. He is rude, he associates with bad people, he does bad things. . It was very difficult for us. I am a strict father, a former Marine. Although my wife was heartbroken, I became very strong and stopped sending her to training camp. He spent 3 months there during the summer when he was 15 years old. It was a terrible experience for him, he stands up, he leaves the crowd, he becomes a student or we are proud. But he never gave up on this experience, he was upset, he stopped talking to us, even his mother, whom he loved very much. He never had a good relationship with me but after that he started hating me. And he stopped talking to his sister because she was with us. He was a good brother by his behavior.
Today he is 25 years old and passed away. He still hates me I hate it so much He is a talented person, has a good job, is doing a great job, is a respectable young man, yet single. He hasn't talked to me much since he left me. We never got it. I still think I'm a tough dad when I do the right thing, but I really want him to be the best. So I never apologized, but many times I told him ruthlessly that I was proud of him. But nothing can change your mind, and I don't think ■■■■ ever does. Yeah Al that sounds pretty crap to me, Looks like BT aint for me either.
I don't need it, I'm not a rich man. Anyway I want to have a relationship with him, he's my son. Her mother suffered greatly, and so did our daughter. But that doesn't seem to be the case.
What should I take care of?
It is important that you talk to a psychologist. You have to do something. First of all, you need to find a way to be happy and content, even if you never see your child again.
It's not about playing with the desires of your relationship. This will go a long way in creating relationships. Realizing that we really need help can change the way we talk and act in a way that makes us different from others. Surprisingly, when you find yourself in a place where you are more likely to accept an unrelated life, it can really open up.
Then you should have a chance to explain your decision to a professional and what your child is going through. You may have done the right thing and you have no reason to apologize. However, it is possible that an apology or at least an argument may be made in such a way that your actions hurt your child, even if the outcome is excellent.
In addition, you can consult with a counselor to determine if your child may be injured while you are away. If there is an inappropriate behavior that he is not aware of, he can try it again. They may be embarrassed to admit what happened, but they have had a hard time communicating with you about the callback.
A psychologist can help you deal with these opportunities, provide tools for lasting relationships, and suggest ways to remind you that you still love your child unconditionally and when. When he dies you will be ready. .
The relationship between your child and your child is very important and complex. Get help, keep working on it, and keep helping yourself. When people move, they eat away at the walls. You can't see when that happens. You see them only when they finally pass. It seemed like a miraculous and sudden event, but it was not. Because work is hidden, you need to be positive and open when your child has a chance to solve his problems.
I pray for your good.
Give him a little time and maybe he'll come back, and if the situation remains the same in a year or two, take some time out and write a very sincere letter and tell him: do whatever you want by force. I can never forgive you If you had sent her and she would have been tough, you would still have done anything to save her life and imprisonment and tell her that you are proud of her! Okay, and I can see her get better, otherwise I think you helped her change her life. You will know one day, when you will be a young man of your own age.
I have experience on both sides of the coin. I was a lazy teenager, I met bad mobs, I made life difficult for my parents, but you know what? My parents didn't give me what I needed to learn from my mistakes. I was sent back three times to places that shocked me and to this day I do not speak to my mother. Now speaking like a parent raising three teenagers, I learned to learn. I remember how I felt as a teenager. I let my kids study and discover their uniqueness, no matter what they agree with. It's all part of the breakup with you as a parent. They have to do their job, make mistakes and learn from them. The transition from adolescence to adolescence is the most difficult period of life. I think you really spoiled it by sending it to boot camp. I don't think it's a relationship you can save yourself. Write him a letter, apologize, maybe he'll hear it, and leave the ball in his court ...
I am 15 years old. I joined the bandits, but I fell in love with my parents. **** I never did that to you. They never believed in me or prepared me to fulfill my dreams. And if my dream comes true then curse. I'm not talking to them or anything. He probably won't accept you as a family because of what you've done with him, and he probably won't. Because you do things he doesn't like. Military school. Etc. You are a great daddy marine and he is a bad boy. He will not let you be his own because one of his tasks is to surprise him. And it will not return to its infancy. That's all you can do with it. Sorry, but this is probably non-refundable. He wants you to suffer. How I wanted to hurt my parents. But then they made it worse, much worse than you. Boat camp is hard to understand because if he hated me I should have avoided boot camp. I want to. If you are sending your child to a boot camp instead of sitting down with him to relax and do business, why not meet him now?
If you hurt her permanently, you will get worse. If you keep bending your knees or ruining your chances of fulfilling your dreams, then ... ■■■■ will never forgive you. If you are not satisfied with your current life because of your childhood, you can join it. But at 25, that's not the case.
I thought I'd write him a letter saying it's a family affair. I know he's a needy teenager, but part of being a teenager is making mistakes. I don't think it's necessary to go through such hardships to send her to a boot camp for a relationship with a 15 year old boy. .
If you have to answer, you will understand, if not at least, the aspect of it and what has happened since then.
My Son Hates Me
My Son Hates Me
I am only fifteen years old, but I can relate to your son, so I will do my best to help him. I've talked to him but it's about sending him to boot camp hahaha but as soon as you talk to him use these things to say. Sending her to camp can make you a better student, but after that, your relationship with her is completely broken and you have no idea. He may have had a really bad experience there and he may have blamed you for it. It's not really your fault ... you just tried to do what is best for her and I think it can be difficult ... and now she is doing it for you too. I don't think you've done anything wrong, but you really don't know what's going on. Even if you are right, you can try to apologize. Tell me my son, I love you and I'm just trying to do what I think is best for you because I'm taking care of you and your mother ... to improve my relationship For Let him know that you miss his wife and daughter and try your best to open up. If he keeps ignoring you, find out what you can do about it. Can you try some tips? Sorry, I made things difficult for you = [but I wish you and your baby the best of luck]
You know what to look for and tactics to help ease the way. I had the same problem with my daughter when everything else failed, I started looking for Jesus, I gave her, she is taking care now, she is very close to me, she said she was with me I'm sorry for the way it was done and I couldn't give up. One day without calling me. Prayer really does work, but you have to give it honestly and let it go, sometimes when we arrive we spoil things. Just trust it, be patient and see what happens.
It's a problem, not yours, unless you misuse it, you have to give it time and it is very difficult to forgive you, to put pressure on you, it will help you to get help. No, it will help you to overcome it. The loss they grieve is losing your relationship with your child and can be a terrible loss.
